Families Can Be Great!

Then Jesus’ mother and brothers came to see him. They stood outside and sent word for him to come out and talk with them. There was a crowd sitting around Jesus, and someone said, “Your mother and your brothers are outside asking for you.” Jesus replied, “Who is my mother? Who are my brothers?” Then he looked at those around him and said, “Look, these are my mother and brothers. Anyone who does God’s will is my brother and sister and mother.” Mark 3:31-35

Some of the most wonderful experiences in life happen within a family! Yet, heartbreakingly, the opposite is also true some of the deepest wounds we carry come from family or from what we thought was family.

Jesus and His followers ignited a revolution that reshaped the very concept of family. They understood how deeply we need nurturing relationships, a place where we belong and are known. Jesus, more than anyone, recognized that so many people walk through life carrying a painful void—a missing father, a missing mother, a missing child or grandparent. These absences leave wounds, but God designed us for relationships that heal and restore.

As followers of Christ, we are called to build strong individual families and an even a greater family—the family of God. Some people fear churches that describe themselves as family, and understandably so. History is filled with misguided cults that have twisted the idea of spiritual family for control, financial gain, or worse. But despite these distortions, the truth remains: the Church is meant to be the family of God (Ephesians 2:19, Romans 8:16, 1 John 3:1).

When a church truly becomes a family of families, it cannot help but grow. Why? Because being part of a healthy, loving family is one of the most basic human needs. The Church at its best is a place where no one stands alone—where love, encouragement, and belonging transform lives.

This Sunday, we have the privilege of hearing from one of the most inspirational pastors in the United States. Pastor Mark Nsimbi will be speaking at Washington Cathedral at 10:30 AM, both in person and online across multiple platforms. If you’ve ever heard Pastor Mark, you know how uplifting and powerful his words are. Let’s not miss this appointment with encouragement!

Your friend for the rest of my life,

Pastor Tim White