By Pastor Linda Skinner
“And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:32
Untruths are prevalent in all of our lives. I grew up thinking that if I went swimming too soon after eating, I could get horrible cramps and drown. That dogs could only see in black and white and shades of grey and they couldn’t see what was on TV. That you should never wake up a sleepwalker, or you would damage their brain. That I could improve my vision by eating carrots (being a person who is severely near-sighted, I ate a lot of carrots to improve my vision!) Now I find out that those are all untruths. I feel like poor Columbus who was told the world was flat and couldn’t find the edge.
Most of these untruths are not really damaging. But how about those lies that shape our perceptions of ourselves. Things like “you were an accident; your parents didn’t really want another child.” Or, “you won’t live to be any older than 55, everyone in our family dies young.” Or, “you’ll never amount to anything, because you don’t know how to behave.” Or, “you might as well give up now, you don’t have what it takes to be a success.” On and on, what lies have you been believing about yourself?
A person who was very dear to me, struggled his entire life with self-esteem issues. He was a kind-hearted, generous person, but could seem gruff and rigid at times. One day he shared with me that he knew from the time he was a little boy that he was an accident. When I asked him why he thought that he told me that he had been told many times by his parents that he was an accident and they never planned to have children. He was told that he came along and changed their lives forever and not for the good. That was deep in his heart and no matter how many times we told him how special he was, he struggled shaking the label “an accident.”
Another dear friend, who struggled with depression and anxiety her entire life, shared that she had been told that God would never accept her. She had done too many bad things in her life and God could not love her. She was one of the few that God was turning his back on and she could not be His child.
Maybe you can relate to these stories. Well, we have some good news for you. None of it is true. The truth is “not one person is ever an accident.” The truth is found in Psalm 139:13-14 (NIV) “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”
The truth is there is nothing that can separate us from the God’s love. Romans 8:37-39 (NLT) “No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is our through Christ, who loves us. And I am convinced that nothing can every separate us God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the below – indeed, nothing in all creation will ever separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Join us for worship this week. Dr. Marty Folsom will be continuing in our series “The Battle for Your Mind” as he helps us sort through the “untruths” in our lives. Please join us at 10:30 am Sunday in Spirit Falls Sanctuary or Online through Facebook Live, YouTube Live, Wacathedral App or www.wacathedral.org.
Wishing you truth and blessings this week.
Pastor Linda
PS We apologize to our online congregation for our technical difficulties last Sunday. We think we have it all fixed, so please be patient with us as we learn to navigate the perils of technology.